Showing posts with label Social Networks. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Social Networks. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Want to Ratchet Up Your Networking?

Ever wonder how to promote your business or blog well without "being in someone's face" as you market or network? Darren Rowse, ProBlogger, compiled a comprehensive list of strategies for both novices and those with some expertise who want growth. I don't know about you, but I have a way to go and I see savvy tools I want to try. Here's just a summary of Darren's ten suggestions in, How to promote your Blog through Networking
Be Generous - Be a giver and not a taker. Help others acheive goals, encourage them and go out of your way to work on their terms.

Don’t Expect too Much too Quick Let relationships grow naturally as you build trust and mutual understanding.

Look for the B-listers Approaching slightly less known bloggers can pay off because these bloggers are more likely to connect and still drive a lot of traffic.

Prove Yourself First People want to see of you're going to stick with it and that you really know what you are talking about. Show you're in it for the long haul and that your blog is making a contribution to the niche.

Persist But Don’t Annoy There's a lot of noise around the blogosphere so don't be offended if people don't respond - try again in a little while - but don't stalk.

Look in Neighboring Niches Networking with people outside my niche can be fruitful. Another way to be strategic is to not look for networking opportunities just with other bloggers on your topic - but with bloggers who share a similar demographic of reader.

Ask Questions When you become a person who asks others about their goals and objectives, where you know what their strengths and weaknesses are and where you know their dreams you not only create a good impression on them but you’ll be in a great position to know where your situation aligns with another person’s - this is where networking becomes most effective.

Become a Go-To Person and a Connector Attempt to draw others into the relationships you have. I find that people are particularly grateful to me when I can’t help them but point them to someone else who can.

Have an Elevator Pitch Develop a few key sentences that describe who you are, what you do and what you offer others. Another good elevator pitch is on what your blog is about. Having thought through these things will help others understand what you can bring to a relationship - but they will also help you understand that too. These can be used in email conversations.

Look for Points of Synergy I’ve found the most profitable relationships to be ones where there was a ’spark’ or ‘energy’ around our interaction - particularly where there was some sort of synergy around goals and objectives but also some sort of a connection when it comes to personality.
I would like to add two tips based on the way your brain operates.

Use People's Names Ever notice that when you use a person's name their eyes light up? Our names are important to us and when you use another blogger's name, rather than just adding to a converstion, you add to the recognition of that person. This triggers the brain horomone, serotonin to flow, and adds to their well-being... expecially when you encourage.

Specifically Name What Others Do Well You can add to the flow of serotonin just mentioned, by naming what another blogger does well. Several blogging friends make a practice of this through links to other people's good work. Such links put weight to their words.

What gems to do see in Darren's list for blogging or business? What would you add?

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Blogger Insights that Grab Your Brain!

The brain is designed to grab what input it can and then boil it up into a froth of understanding. John McCrone

Have you found ideas lately that lift you up like helium balloons sail to the heights? If so, you're likely an active participant in social media networks. That's where you'll find blogger insights that grab your brain.

Joanna Young reminded me that inspiring words connect us together. In that light, I chose the quote above. I dedicate the quote above to several friends in the blogosphere who provide insights to ponder...

Drew McLellan points out that The Women on the Web, friends "who have incredible influence in many different fields" describe their blog as a "conversation on the internet." Drew adds, "I call it a blog. But....in very short order, we're going to call it a force. Their question of the day for yesterday was....which 4 women would you like to see on Mt. Rushmore. 70+ comments." Obviously the women pushed Drew's thinking by asking great questions.

In a very powerful blog this morning, Liz shared that she was "stuck in weeds." In a short poem she describes this state of mind...
The sun when it shined hurt my eyes.
Folks weren’t responding — gee I wonder why?
I wanted someone to fix me.

It wasn’t the universe that was wrong — it was ME.
She notes that once she got out of the weeds she could see it had been raining wildflowers.
Heroes and angels were all around me — clients, sponsors, family, friends, folks who hardly knew me were suggesting how to lighten my load — They weren’t asking anything in return.
Do you see what blogging conversations can do! Be sure to sign up for SOBCon08, where you can enlarge your conversation person to person.

Ellen Weber shares why conversations go further and we learn more from each other when we encourage rather than vent or be critical...

Communication connects to most aspects of work when you think about it. It shapes:

1. Time when people rewire time management and share solutions.
2. Collaboration when team members inspire difficult people.
3. Innovation when people invent and suggest a better way.
4. Visionary when people see past the problem and show possibilities.
5. Mood when people use serotonin words and avoid cortisol barbs.

Chis Brown concludes Word of Mouth is Best Marketing:

Beyond all the fancy marketing techniques of SEO and Web2.0, all the competitive analysis and regression plotting — isn’t the best marketing of all when a friend tells you to try something because they liked it and thought you might too?
Gavin Heaton not only generates great conversations on the web that tickle my dendrites, he and Drew McLellan extended an opportunity for other bloggers to write a piece for a book, The Age of Conversation, to be sold on Amazon this second edition. The book will be chock full of amazing insights from bloggerss around the world.

Joanna chose a very meaningful quote for me and other bloggers she values highly:

"We are each of us angels with only one wing, and we can only fly by embracing one another"
Liz, Drew, Chris, Ellen, Gavin, you too, can find a great quote and begin to "boil up a froth of new understanding" with at least three other bloggers you value.

People who shine with interpersonal smarts, not only give out to others, but reap the reward of deeper understanding and build new friendships as they do.

May you all have a blessed Easter!

Saturday, October 6, 2007

Has Social Networking Changed the Face of Your Friendships?


Is Social Networking Changing the Nature of Friendship? That's a good question... Though I never thought that I'd add new friends to my life when I began a blog, that soon changed. Is that your experience, too?

Since folks can pop in on delightful conversations with others around the globe, when it's convenient, Web 2.0 opens doors to new kinds of friendships. I enjoy the ability to meet and converse with people because it opens windows to worlds of ideas. Did you find that to be true as well? Consider this...

The brain is not challenged by conversations about the weather, and yet when folks are face to face where they work and socialize, the weather's often the main topic of conversation... The fact that the brain steps up to challenges and intellectual ideas draws people to deeper issues. Social networks open new windows to meaningful topics with those who share similar interests and professions. Here's some facts gleaned from recent research.

Findings on how social networking is changing the face of friendship are fascinating...
Online users have the same number of friends in real-life, but even more counterparts online

Myspace and Facebook is changing the number of friends people have

The average person has a social network of around 150 friends, ranging from close friends to casual acquaintances

90% of online friends rated as 'close' have met face to face

People choose friends in person and online based on their 'quality'... in person facial and bodily cues help, but online it's harder to spot dishonest signals

Social networks aid communication and may bring about a change in the size and structure of real-life social networks in the future
Here's just a few examples of professionals and others who network...

Maria Palma is likely to talk to Tom Vanderwell because they're interested in Customer Service.

Mike Wagner discusses branding with others in the field, Anna Farmery, Chris Brown, Drew McClellan, Martin Jelsema, Patrick Schaber, Cord Silverstein Jonathan Phillips, and many more...

Liz Strauss, Darren Rowse, Mike Sansone, Yaro Starak, Phil Gerbyshak, Rob Watts, Ben Yoskovitz, Dawud Miracle, MarkK and many other folks enjoy the art and science of blogging and share tools and strategies to exchange ideas and conversations that enhance our experiences

Some bloggers enjoy conversations and sharing their experiences and ideas. They never cease to amaze you with new thoughts and ventures... Bob Glaza, Terry Starbucker, Hsien Lei, Robert Hruzek, Chris Cree, and perhaps you...

I'll be adding more categories in the next couple of days...

And today's news adds another perspective to consider... Do pets fill the friendship niche for some folks?... number of pet owners is on the rise... There're more than 70 million pet owners in this country, and that's up over 7 percent, from just last year... So what does this say?

We'll keep track of where social networks online lead, but consider this...

Social networks change us and we change social networks!

Thoughts...