
Four factors feed envy and cause it to ferment in today's offices, according to Judith Sills, a Philadelphia-based clinical psychologist:
A highly competitive workplace culture“Envy is the fear of losing social standing. ... It can affect people in subtle and unseen ways. People don’t want to admit to it. ... If you’re admitting that you’re jealous, you’re admitting that you have a sense of inferiority,” Robert Vecchio, professor of management at Notre Dame, contends.
An emotional dunce of a boss
Favoritism in our families of origin
Exceptional achievement that ticks off everyone else.
Managers often shy away when it comes to envy because they don't want to deal with "emotions" in the workplace. "It's considered childish or inappropriate to talk about," Robert Vecchio, says.
Envy costs in the end.. it affects more than just emotions within a firm. A perceived slight can lead a worker to fume and impede productivity. And, if the worker seeks to get even -- files might disappear or...
Unfortunately it's hard for people to forget perceived social put downs...

Then how would a supervisor, manager or boss turn an environment racked with jealousy upside down? Since envy breeds in a highly competitive environments, how about starting here...
1. Share decision making.
2. List clear job descriptions and performance expectations and stick to these consistently based on employees' performance.
3. Delegate work to people demonstrating talents, who follow through to finish with timeliness.
4. Take time to chat with employees to really listen and know their concerns.
5. Encourage good work accomplished.
6. Demonstrate respect for colleagues and employees daily. Start by using their names more and smiling when you pass them.
7. Invite diverse views at project roundtables.
8. Lead interactive sessions on ways to work collaboratively. Draw most input from employees.
9. Play together. Create such opportunities based on employees' input.
10. Alternate "drudgery" tasks so these are shared more.
How do you handle over-competitiveness and its fallout at your organization? What solutions would you add?
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