Last March, my parents gave Pamela, a stuffed animal lover, this cute teddy bear. She figured out really quickly that the bear will recite prayers and poems if you press its paws. Pamela loved the added bonus of the bear that had verbal stims like her! LOL! I noticed that she learned these poems and prayers and, when she recites, she sounds exactly like the bear. The same voice. The same cadence. The same pitch! Here are comparisons of the bear and Pamela reciting the same poem:
Teddy Bear
Pamela
When I first got into Charlotte Mason homeschooling, all efforts to teach Pamela to recite poems failed. Two years ago, I figured out that blending copywork and studied dictation with recitaiton enabled her to recite poems correctly! We worked through lots of poetry by A. A. Milne and other beloved poets. We started school on August 18 and I decided to see if she could handle recitating without the scaffolding of visual and written work. I picked a poem called Singing Time by Rose Fyleman (a lover of all things faerie) from the book Poems and Prayers for the Very Young. I deliberately choose a very easy poem from a very easy book to build a sense of confidence in Pamela.
Singing Time I wake in the morning early And always, the very first thing, I poke out my head and I sit up in bed And I sing and I sing and I sing.
Here is how I scaffolded this:
I had Pamela read it aloud a few times each session.
We backchained the learning of this poem by starting off with the last two lines.
I said the end and then she said the end. We went back and forth a few times every session.
Sometimes we practiced while rocking so that she can learn to feel the rhythm of poetry.
In the following clip is the very first time we practiced going back and forth with the poem on August 18. Then you see us ten days later doing a rocking session and Pamela's final recitation. At the end, all I did was smile and you can see how she reads my face at the end and then smiles brightly too!
We are praying for Pamela's grandma and grandpa, who live in Lousiana and are facing Gustav (as well as other members of the family who live there and in Mississippi). They gave this beautiful 500-piece panda puzzle to Pamela for Christmas, and she just finished it this week! The puzzle was quite a challenge (for both of us) because it only had three basic colors: white, black, and green and combinations of them. I had to scaffold puzzle building in the early stages! If you look at where we started with puzzles back in March 2007, you might think I am excited about how far Pamela has come in this ability. You see, she finished the puzzle while I was cooking dinner. The last fourteen pieces were black and could only be placed by shape and the number of knobs and holes. Being able to do this shows how far she has come because, when we first started, she did not even know the difference between a corner, edge, or inner piece, much less what to do with them.
But, improvement in this static, procedural skill is NOT why I am so excited! I have always loved to build puzzles: my grandmother from Germany always bought me the most beautiful and intricate jigsaw puzzles for Christmas. I remember buying one of those round single color puzzles with my babysitting money. I imagined passing on this love of puzzles to my children, envisioning sitting around a table set aside for puzzles and chatting while we worked on a puzzle. Because Pamela had no interest in them because she had no clue how to put them together, I let go of that vision! But, here we were this week finishing up a very complicated one!
I try to keep relationship in mind by spotlighting working together and refining my ability to guide and her ability to relate to me. In this process, she has learned to borrow my perspective on how to build puzzles. Sometimes, we come up with fun creative ways to build a puzzle. And, even when I am not there when she finishes one, she Snoopy dances to see me and shares her joy with me! This morning, two days after finishing the panda, Pamela was looking at it and said to me, "It's so beautiful."
Findings from a recent study show show we're influenced by wide ranging effects of light on how we perform and feel. Additionally there are implications for the development of better artificial light environments and a better understanding of the effects of light on the human brain in general.
Ready to make some changes in your lighting so you can ratchet up your working memory? How about energy efficient flourescent bulbs? Many produce blue light. Your brainpower can go green, too!
5 tips to improve your memory: 1: Pay attention to minute details when you go to a place or when you meet a person. For example when you meet a person, observe the size and color of his dress, his height, his complexion, the place where you meet him, the door number of the house, the name of the street, its location etc and try to recall them when you go back to your residence.
It never ceases to amaze me that each of us wakes up with a unique mix of eight intelligences, yet we use one or two at best. We're naturally stronger in some more than others because they've been developed more fully throughout our lives. As I visit many blogs, I take note of folks whose talents in specific intelligences rise to the top...
Interpersonal Intelligence: What is the one question most job seekers fail to ask in an interview? GL Hoffman not only answers this question, but offers brilliant tips to ask thoughtful questions at a job interview. In preparing these ahead, it will change the face of your next interview. In fact, I sense it'll put it over the top!
Verbal-Linguistic Intelligence: Want idea starters for blog titles? Brad Schorr built a list of 33 foolproof tactics to kickstart the process. You'll want to bookmark this or save it so you have it handy to create an attention-getter for your next posts.
Naturalistic Intelligence: Amy Jussel reports there is a new focus for youth named No Child Left Inside. This new coalition introduces children to the wonders of nature and helps them develop eco-literacy. Since a love of nature can be a legacy to children and grandchildren, I'm glad to see this helps those who otherwise might not begin to enjoy its delights.
Spatial Intelligence: Pick the best of David Armano's brain on Visual Thinking. David shares some of his best Logic and Emotion designs from Flickr in a presentation format. I'd like to learn how to do that... Don't miss this one!
Musical Intelligence - How about creating a concert in a major city to help the plight of child soldiers in the Republic of Congo? Gavin Heaton's helping Isadore Biffin with her marketing plan for her major work in her last year of high school. A concert in Sydney on November 20, 2008 will help Isadore accomplish her goals. Isadore already confirmed local Sydney bands like The Shipwrecked and Peregrine -- and is hoping to add a headline act to the list. Music can help take this cause over the top! The concert's sure to be a winner with a mentor like Gavin and a go-getter like Isadore.
Bodily-kinesthetic Intelligence Ever consider that your vacation can open new opportunities to exercise? But... you have to plan for it. Alina Popescu decided to vacation in Oludeniz, Turkey. Here's what she planned: Paragliding, white-water rafting, hiking around Dalayan Mud Baths and Turtle Beach, canoing, horseback riding, and snorkling. Alina, I think I need a vacation like this one! What about you?
Logical-mathematical Intelligence Has your small business been feeling the crunch of this economy? Dawud Miracle describes a small business owner who came to him for advice since her earnings dropped 40% in the last 18 months. Her first reaction was to cut back on advertising and marketing since these were her highest expenses. What would you advise?
Dawud took her in an opposite direction...
In lean times, sure, cut back on unnecessary expenses. Readjust your books so you can loosen up some cash. But even more importantly, get active. In other words - sell.
Yet the key to coming out of a difficult financial period - be it your own business cycle or that of a slow economy - is to focus on growing your business. Utilize all the selling techniques you know about to stir your way out of stagnation.
A wonderful fact about intelligences is that though we may be weak in some areas, we can work to strengthen them. For instance, bodily-kinesthetic intelligence hasn't been my forte, but when I took up golf, I enjoyed it so much that I was willing to practice and do what was needed to gain the skills. I even won a district golf tournament with three other players. You can do this because the human brain has great plasticity so the dynamic mix of your strengths can actually change.
It's also fun to take a new perspective as you write a post. For instance if you generally just sit and write on your topic, what would it be like to look at it through the eyes of a musician, or a banker, or a hiker, or an artist?
Do you breathe out fire in what you do as dragons do? Joanna Young asked that question in March, and I've been chewing on it since. When expressing ideas, no matter the topic, breathing fire into your words makes a difference. You'll juice up brainpower to access the fire... Flickr photo by labels_30
Joanna pictures the fires as...
a breath, a powerful, transformative breath.
That's what's in it for us when we take risks to breathe the dragon fire...
Recently Joanna encountered many glitches as she transferred Confident Writing to Word Press. That was a powerful decision to make and she had the courage to go ahead. I can just imagine the new inspiration and dragon-fire we'll be seeing in future posts.
On top of this Joanna made a life-changing decision to move to the Aryan Islands located off the west coast of Ireland/Scotland. That was a transformative breath in itself and I hope that Joanna reaps life time benefits from it.
“Do we all have to be Early Birds?” O Youn-hee, of The Korea Herald, asks. Park Myoung, an office worker, “gets nervous” when others discuss Saisho’s bestselling book, Let’s Become a Morning Person. Park laments, “It seems society demands all employees to transform themselves into morning people,” since colleagues arrived for work one or two hours early to succeed in a very competitive company. Park describes herself as a night person who usually goes to bed at 2 a.m. “I just can’t be an early bird,” Park exclaims. If you're a night owl, like Park, are you actually getting the best from your brain?
Another recent Harvard Medical School study finds that people who slept after learning new information at 9:00 pm performed best, successfully recalling more words when tested. This compares to people who learned the new information in the morning. It would be interesting to test someone at 12:00 am to see how the results look.
Want to identify your body clock? Check it out on this Psychology Today Quiz which includes an assessment of results. See where you stand in all of this.
It's clear that Night Owls may benefit by studying in the evening, but they'd still need plenty of sleep. Hmm... our Early Bird world poses a problem... So...
If your Circadian rhythm favors evening hours like Park, what's your secret to successfully navigating in a world set up for Early Birds?
What does this seemingly unrelated odd collection of objects have in common? You'll see. . .
Our RDI consultant wanted to get to know Pamela better, so they spent two and a half hours together, out and about town. They had lots of fun and laughs. Our consultant thinks Pamela is hilarious, sweet, and gentle. How wonderful that a professional likes Pamela and enjoys her company!
First, they drove to a lake. Pamela became the iPod navigator in the car and found nothing she recognized. She turned it off because it seems our taste in music is different from that of our consultant. Pamela did not want to go walking, so she told our consultant that it's "not a very good idea," "a bad idea," and "too danger." They sat in the car and negotiated for a bit.
The suggestion of the Dollar Tree triggered another "not a great idea" semi-automatic response until Pamela realized it was a store, not a tree. Pamela picked out a really cool bright pink and blue sensory bracelet for herself. She could not find a gift for David. LOL.
They headed to Wally World, and our consultant told Pamela she would be happy to buy her a toy. Pamela suggested DVD but that was out for many reasons. They checked out the DVD’s and moved onto the toys. One surprising toy that caught her eye was a cupcake baker, probably because all of the baking we do. Pamela then insisted it was time for me to get food and helped pick up item's our consultant's grocery list. To my surprise, Pamela became a food Nazi and would not let her buy Lucky Charms, even though we buy gluten, casein, and junk-laced cereal at home! She explained that Lucky Charms would make you sick. One thing was clear to the consultant: Pamela's got referencing skills nailed!
Pamela finally picked out her momentos from our consultant in her favorite grocery aisle.
Was it candy? NOPE!
Was it soy ice cream? NOPE, not even chocolate soy ice cream.
What about potato chips or tortilla chips? NOPE!
She went down the condiment aisle! She probably picked the oddest things of all the kids our consultant has seen . . .
pickles
green olives
beef broth (she even pointed out the "gluten-free" description on the label to convince her it was okay).
After Wal-Mart, they had lunch. Our consultant already knew about the gf/cf thing and ordered the burger without then bun. I told her about the drink with no ice, but I forgot to mention the extra small fries. So, when Pamela saw only two fries, she kept saying, "There's a mistake." Our consultant could not figure out what, so Pamela did what we always do. I usually take a couple of fries and give her mine to avoid starting Chernobyl. Since our consultant did not know about my sacrificial tendencies, Pamela kept "stealing" her fries and our consultant would laugh and say, "You're a French Fry thief!" Pamela thought that was hilarious. That weird-looking, big-headed Star Wars bobble-head was the toy from her kid's meal. I guess Pamela got a toy after all!
When our consultant told Pamela they were going back, Pamela said, "We are at the end of our tape." When our consultant said, "Our date," she insisted, "No! Our cassette tape . . . Comedy!" and cracked up at her joke. Her great smile made it clear that Pamela was deliberately telling a joke.
There are two things I appreciated from this visit:
(1) Our consultant sees my description of Pamela as accurate sketches of her character: "Pamela is really easy to be around, and a very funny girl. We had some honest moments of connection that were invaluable to me. . . I think your descriptions are right on, and I really like your kid."
(2) Our consultant sees that Pamela is ready to move onto more gestures because she has the whole listening posture down! I am doing another language assessment on how she expresses not wanting to do something to see if we can expand her phrases and body gestures for this.
In fact, here is an excerpt of our last submission to the consultant and I have to "catch" Pamela at not listening. In 34 minutes of film, she has only three lapses in listening posture! At the end, I tacked on a blip of Pamela and her budding interest in comedy.
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We are wrapping up the end of our first official week of school, and I have to say Pamela is awesome. I made up a schedule in Excel (by the way, if you do not already have it, homeschoolers and other educators and students can buy the home and student edition of Microsoft Office for a great price--I enjoy thinking in Excel and find it indispensible for planning! Like her daddy, Pamela loves accomplishing and swiping things of her to-do list. We have accomplished nearly everything on the plan, and what is not done is due to things I need to figure out! She even adjusted it for me when we got behind in the association method because I got too ambition one day this week and we got a day behind!
The highlight of the week for me was one of Pamela's ideas. Throughout the summer, Pamela has been dropping little hints about what she would like to do differently. She requested that we read her beloved Getting to Know Nature's Children series of books. I do not believe these books are truly living books, they are not dry like encyclopedia articles either. I thought she might enjoy making entries in her nature notebook and writing her narrations there. As you can see, we started off with chipmunks.
Even though the soil in our area is too swampy and full of clay for chipmunks, we know them very well from our time in Colorado. We fed and watched the ground squirrels and Western chipmunks in our backyard. The baby chipmunks were so adorable, and Pamela enjoyed watching them scamper about. David spent hours trying to tame those things and could not contain his joy when one touched his shoe. One day, he ran into the house bawling, "Loa [our dog] broke a rule! She ate a chipmunk!" Yes, that day our dear dog shattered David's innocence, but he forgave her anyway.
During the week, Pamela read through page 11 and recorded her thoughts on graphic organizers posted below.
When it came time to write her narrations today, I put away her graphic organizers and she wrote from memory. I enjoyed seeing what she took away from her reading and what she found important. I loved her illustrations, too!
I saw so many videos about Barack Obama - Hillary Clinton, so many Funny Clinton Pictures, So many Funny Obama Pictures, and much more. But my favorite was one video.My favorite VÃdeo was this:
This morning I was working in the kitchen when Pamela burst into the house from the back porch.
She said, "Somebody stole it. Wicked thief!"
I asked, "What did they steal?"
Pamela said, "The shoe! I searched everywhere."
I walked to the porch with her and, sure enough, her shoe was missing. Only one shoe of the myriad of shoes sitting on our porch had disappeared! Of course, it was Pamela's favorite well-worn shoe.
I turned to her and said, "A human would steal two shoes."
Pamela did not follow my thought process, so I added, "I think it was an animal."
She still did not understand, so I said, "I think it was a dog."
I went back in the kitchen, and Pamela burst back into the house. "I found it!"
I joined her on the porch, and she pointed to a spot behind the car. We walked together to retrieve the missing shoe and were relieved to see no teeth marks.
The funniest thing happened on our walk to the playground where she pretends to be a superhero on the climbing equipment. Around the corner from our house, we both spotted someone else's lone shoe. I gasped and pointed and said, "A shoe!"
Pamela laughed and said, "Comedy!" Then she pointed to her shoe and said, "Just like this one!"
Then, I added, "The shoe thief is a dog!"
It was one of those sweet moments I will always cherish! Why? Because she has come a long way from screaming meltdowns when things went wrong.
P.S. Now, if only I could solve the mystery of the pumpkin pie thief. Pamela and I baked one yesterday; I left the house for a few hours and someone inhaled it. Steve was out of town for the night. I do not think I can pin it on the dogs because they are unable to jump on the stove. Somehow, I have a feeling the thief (or thieves) walk upright . . .
Do you always get it? Great news is that Age of Conversation 2's about to make a debut at Amazon.com. When you pick the brains of many bloggers you can tap into the art and science of building community. Best part is you'll discover new tools to be a successful blogger and marketer.
Think of all the brainpower packed inside the 2nd edition with 237 contributors. You'll "get it" for sure!
Thanks Drew McLellan and Gavin Heaton for the brainchild and all the work you've done to make this edition a reality. Thanks David Armano for a great cover. Thanks to all contributors.
Funny coincidence, an old bloging pal Robert Basic from Basic Thinking reposted my question referring to me as ''der alteste'' ( the oldest ) blogger from Croatia. While it might not be true, I am packing to Munich – Germany this week , but I might be the first from Croatia officially entering European Union hahaha... Weird choice for making Urlaub in Bavaria , don't you think :D You know we ( Croatia ) are in the process of joyning this peacefullly community of EU countries so I wanna prepare on time. Euro muntzen feeling :)
So, if anyone wants to show me the city, have a beer , has some shared rooms for few days, talk with me about Web status quo, going to some live rock concert , feel free to drop me mail. The type of persons I enjoy- people from digital media and mobile telecom, journalists, musicians, artists, entrepreneurs, innovators, women with ''curious'' attitude :))
My BlackBerry is killing me. I still haven't got used to SureType SMSsing.
Short note, a fellow Twitt from nearby Pitomaca got quoted in BBC News for FireEagle story. Dujkan matters :)
"I wonder if 'handed-ness' is any clue to the brains strengths," Geology Joe asks. "I'm a lefty." That question primed the pump of my curiosity, too. So I did some research and found answers in the August/September issue of Scientific American Mind...
People highly gifted in music, art and math make extensive use of the right brain over the left. Back in the 1980's Harvard neurologists Norman Geschwind and Albert Galaburda were fascinated that so many musicians, artists and mathematicians are also more likely to have left brain deficits, such as dyslexia or stuttering.
As a possible answer to this they suggest that this right brain preeminence could result from higher-than-normal testosterone levels in the womb. In fact some research findings show that testosterone can impede the development of the brain's left hemisphere. To compensate for this, the right brain becomes more highly developed.
Since male fetuses are typically exposed to more testosterone than females, this increased exposure provides a possible explanation for higher number of male math prodigies and of males with language disorders, according to psychologists, Christian Hoppe and Jelena Stojanovic at the University Clinic for Epileptology in Bonn, Germany. They add that the hormonal account of origins of genius and pathology remain controversial.
I love interacting with other people online because they give me wonderful insights. A few months ago, some parents and professionals interested in RDI, whether are not they have or are consultants. For one reason or another, RDI is out of reach for some families, and this list, called Autism Remediation for Our Children, is a place where people can connect and learn relational ways of remediating autism from each other.
This week, we were talking about verbal behavior (VB), a form of speech therapy that is based on the principles of ABA, and I know very little about VB. I did share what is working very well with Pamela, the association method, which can dovetail nicely with RDI, depending upon how you implement it. One person pointed out that verbal behavior focuses on imperative language (right or wrong questions, commands, prompts). RDI, which focuses on declarative language (sharing what you experience), does not mesh well with VB because of the kind of language taught. That comment inspired me to think about the association method in a new light!
Of the he first six sentences and questions taught, five are declarative and only one is imperative.
This is a/an _______. What is this? I see a/an ______. What do you see? I have a/an ______. What do you have? I want a/an _______. What do you want? ______ has a/an _______. What does _______ have? This is ________. Who is this?
I never thought of this, but much of what the association method teaches is for children to describe what they see in the form of stories, stories about animals, inanimate objects, people, rooms, etc. Slowly, you add on to the basic structure with adjectives, prepositions, other articles, etc. Then, you introduce past tense and future tense to work on experience stories. EXPERIENCE STORIES! That sure sounds like opportunities for experience sharing to me!
We did get back to the Yellow Books (syntax-controlled readers) which we are using to supplement what we do with the association method. I will share more later about our first day of school (I have to edit and process the footage first). Pamela was fabulous as always and enjoyed eating a sandwich (made with gf/cf cheese and bread), soy pudding, and fresh berries from her lunch box. She is so sweet and hard-working!
“Fred” Smith, the founder, chairman, president and CEO of FedEx, showed keen interest in flying and eventually he became a Marine Corps pilot. Smith focused on aspects of aviation that most people take for granted. For instance, at night, when people weren’t flying, Smith noted many commercial jets parked in hangars. He brainstormed and came up with the idea to use idle jets to fly packages.
Smith took his idea one step further to create a college economics paper and outline plan: identify a central location with good weather, fly the packages there, exchange them and have the planes fly back “home” to drop off packages for delivery. The planes could then resume the job of transporting people. Although Smith's Yale professor awarded a “C” for the paper, Fred Smith saw an opportunity where no one else did. In 2007, FedEx Corporation’s sales topped $35 billion.
Why do some leaders invent or experience "aha" moments more than others? I'm curious... Are you? People who tend to solve problems with a sudden creative insight -- an "Aha! Moment" -- reveal a distinct pattern of brain activity, even at rest, according to recent neuroscience research. The researchers compared creators to people who tend to solve problems more methodically. Here's what they found...
Inventors and CreatorsCreative problem solvers in the study showed greater activity in regions of the right brain than more methodical people. In past research, right-brain involvement in processing loose or "remote" associations between elements was understood to be a key component of creative thought.
High Right Brain Activity Findings also reveal that inventive people experience greater right-brain activity during a "resting" state. Even the spontaneous thought of creative individuals, such as their daydreams, contains more of these remote associations. Hmm... are you a daydreamer?
More Visual Activity Additionally, creative solvers exhibited higher brainwave activity in areas of the brain that process visual information. The pattern of "alpha" and "beta" brainwaves in creative solvers was consistent with diffuse rather than methodical people's focused visual attention. Creative folks may broadly sample the environment for images that trigger remote associations leading to an Aha!
Methodical Problem Solvers In contrast, the more focused attention of methodical solvers reduces their distractibility. Such focus allows them to effectively solve problems for which the solution strategy is already known.
According to John Kounios, professor at Drexel, “Problem solving, whether creative or methodical, doesn’t begin from scratch when a person starts to work on a problem. His or her pre-existing brain-state biases a person to use a creative or a methodical strategy.”
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The Paradoxical Commandments by Dr. Kent M. Keith People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Sooner or later, it was bound to happen. Twitter stops SMS notifications for many users. It is funny watching all those people from Web/internet backgrounds now in shock and awe. LOL :) Like it was sustainable practice. Obviously, another prove that the US west coast miscalculated mobile ( telecom matters ).
We should be all reminded how ICQ messenger in the early days of Web ( I was using this feature around year 2000. ) was shutting down SMS feature as well ( for most countries, it is available only in few countries ).
* Now when's blood on the street, I wanna buy a stake in Twitter and make another investment round BCDEFG ;))
UPDATE: Opposite to Twitter, Brightkite thinks they are just ready to add international text messaging as an option ( hahaha )
Yesterday, David turned sixteen! Saturday, we are taking David, three of his friends, and Pamela to Carowinds. He requested a carrot cake, which I plan to bake today. Pamela wanted to bake a cake for him, and we went gf/cf so that we can keep a piece for her for Saturday's celebration. She pulled out a gf/cf baking mix and pointed to a chocolate cake recipe for us to make from scratch! The baking mix we used includes fava and garbanzo bean flours, and even my picky Dad scarfed it down with gusto! We slightly adjusted the recipe:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease two round cake pans. Place all ingredients in a large bowl and mix with an electric mixer. Pour into the cake pans and bake for 30 minutes (or until the toothpick inserted in the cake's center comes out clean). Servings: 12.
I used the same frosting recipe as before, except we used Buttery Sticks instead of coconut milk.
One thing that struck me about watching these video clips is how much more comfortable Pamela is in the kitchen. When we first started baking in March 2007, I scaffolded by getting all the ingredients and utensils out. Now, she finds the ingredients on her own and searches the drawers for utensils. She can crack an egg with one hand! She can put a pan into a hot oven (although I am still pulling them out for her). She knows how to turn on the oven and set either timer (the oven or microwave). She is even starting to read the recipes and decide the next step to take!
Here is what I wrote about the cake baking clip:
Objective: To spotlight when I am not listening and when I am listening so Pamela learns to spot the differences in my body language.
What Worked: I was much more subtle today in my non-listening spells. Pamela did very well. She responded well when I complained about her jabs. She has had a lighter touch since then.
What Frustrated Pamela: I had to be careful to reassure Pamela when she got frustrated at glitches: a mom who doesn't listen, a pesky can opener, a mixer that spewed, etc. She did recover without melting down and finished all of the steps in baking a cake. I have to walk a fine line of working on the objective without pushing her off the cliff.
Comment: I loved when she cracked an egg one handed and make a pun on the word can. Her confidence in the kitchen is soaring!
We had a minor glitch between making the cake and the frosting. Pamela and her consultant were going to spend three hours doing things together like eating lunch, browsing at Wal-Mart or the store, and playing at the park. Something came up and our consultant had to postpone their visit by a week. Pamela cried and talked about being broken-hearted. I soothed her with stim phrases to help change her thoughts, rubbed her arm, and spoke to her gently. I also promised a trip to the health food store in Columbia today to make up for it.
As you can see in the clip, she is back to normal. Last night, we all went to a Mexican restaurant for dinner. While I was telling Steve about the altered plans, I mentioned that Pamela was broken-hearted. She said loudly, "I'm not broken-hearted." So, her heart is healed! :-)
Another interesting thing was that Steve was being silly and nearly knocked over the salsa. Pamela laughed loudly and laughed with us. Then, she said, "Comedy!"
My objective was again to demonstrate non-listening body language, more subtly. This time I gave different reasons for it. Pamela does recognize when I am not listening, so I think I will start pointing out when "I can't tell if you're listening."
Finally, we have the birthday boy being serenaded. We took him out to eat at the local Mexican restaurant and threatened to alert the waiters about his birthday, so they could pull out the silly sombrero and serenade him. But, we did not. Why he is embarrassed at our singing, I cannot fathom. But, he recovered sufficiently to blow out all the candles in one breath.
Last month, Pamela and Steve washed the car so Steve could try his hand at guided participation. They did this before Steve's week-long trip to Santiago and other busy-ness. The point of making videos is to watch them so that you can learn more about your relationship dynamics. This week, I pinned him down long enough to watch the two clips and make observations! We first read over the Powerpoint presentation about making videos that our consultant emailed last week. It is important to focus on the objective and make sure you edit it down to less than five minutes of all of the key points in the interaction. I tend to go over five minutes being the long-winded person I am!
Steve is your typical, type A, complete-everything-on-my-to-do-list guy. He runs circles around everyone and my dad calls him Whirlwind. He loves running so much that he even finishes marathons! So, when our consultant tells him to slow down to Pamela's pace, it requires a monumental effort.
Steve's Phrase: "Give her time!"
His Objective: I need to slow down in an activity that she could follow me successfully.
Overall Impression: Pamela is a great follower! She did really well.
Mastery: I did slow down more than usual. I could have been more nonverbal. I spent too much time describing. I need to say what the problem is and not tell her what to do. Rather than say, "Get more soap," I could say, "Your rag isn't very soapy anymore."
What Worked: I found ways to help her be more successful in the moment (switching hoses, giving her rags to carry instead of the bucket, etc.). The water fight was great!
What did not work: I am better about avoiding questions and prompts. But, I need to work on the commands.
Comments: I can see how watching the video reveals more detail than I recall from the interaction.
This article(tips to attract woman) was send by a friend, tanks Wilson de Souza.5 Tips to attract a fine looking woman: 1. KEEP YOURSELF CLEAN Until recently, Cleanliness was next to Godliness, but nowadays Cleanliness is too busy whispering sweet nothings to Attractiveness on the chaise-longue. It is very important therefore, that if you want to be attractive to women, you keep
Pamela's greater interest in people has spilled over into launching our homeschool program this year. About three weeks ago, she picked out a pink lunch bag with the Disney princesses and told me it was for school. Two weeks ago, she put in special requests for our homeschooling program like using Eric Carle books for studied dictation and Nature's Children books for science. Then, she told me we should not start up on August 4 (my plan) because school starts on August 18 for the public schooled children in the area.
I decided to combine her fascination with being like other kids going back to school with working on my RDI objective of Pamela learning to recognize listening body language. I bought typical school supplies like a pink zippered notebook, Disney princess spiral notebooks, all kinds of school goodies, etc. Then, without Pamela noticing, I set up a book bag (Barbie collection book club one that she got ten years ago) with her books, put papers and goodies in the notebook, etc. I filmed us going through all of the school stuff--she just loved it!
To frame this activity around my objective, I told Pamela that I would sometimes pretend I was not listening. At first, I was really obvious with my unlistening body language but I got more subtle as we went along. She found her finger quite effective in letting me know to straighten up and pay attention to her. Once I caught her in the act of not listening!
Have you noticed a recent slippage in brands? Some major "brands" taunt customers with incredible leaps. For instance, the Vatican recently issued credit cards. A mother-to-be gave away naming rights for her child in a Las Vegas Lottery. Author Lucas Conley's new book, OBD, Obsessive Branding Disorder, raises pointed questions and rollicking laughs at branding that's "jumped the tracks, barreling through popular culture unchecked."
Doesn't this go against logic that a company is expert in one product line or service. Obsessive branding works against the human brain...
"Brands offer us mental shortcuts, helping us cut through the clutter of everything we buy and enabling us to communicate certain concepts quickly and easily. No one wants to sift through tens of thousands of packaged foods on every trip to the supermarket. Instead, we rely on the brands we know. And branding, when it's consistent, provides us with clarity and simplicity in a progressively hectic world."
But, Kool Aid tennis shoes doesn't fit the branding. What would be your reaction when you see them on the shelf? Would you laugh, or "pooh, pooh" them? The human brain frees up space for more critical facts. Do you sense that companies who go too far afield defeat their purpose?
The human brain's powerfully influenced by brands. "Simple exposure to brand names has the potential to activate goals," which then influence thrift or prestige choices, according to Duke, Standford and University of Wisconsin researchers. So you can see why great branding is critical to sales and advertising.
Lucas Conley wonders why companies focus so much on branding and miss innovation and invention in their products. Now that's where companies can energize sales and overall products.
I took a sabbatical from blogging to catch up in needlework projects for friends and family with precious ones one the way. Last month, Jamberry gave birth to short boy #3, and I had nothing to show for it! I bought a one-pound cone cone of pure cotton yarn in a shaded denim ombre colors and whipped out one project after another until I had just enough left for baby doll clothes. I decided to concentrate crocheted items since Jamberry, not a crocheter, knitted many projects for her wee one. I made a hat, booties, burp cloth, and bib plus a lovable pair of baby socks made out of Baroque Crochet Cotton white thread that proved irresistible to me. Aren't you amazed at how much you can squeeze out of 787 yards of yarn (not including the baby doll clothes to follow)?
Last month, Pamela's Tia Patty bought her a baby wearing a pink bath robe, whom Pamela insisted was a boy named Baby David! Since the poor babe has been touring South Carolina with nothing but a diaper, I decided to clothe him in some proper boy clothes. I could not find any baby doll patterns that I liked, so I picked out ones for premies and used a hook two sizes too small: a going-home outfit (which I slightly adapted) and booties.
As you can see, the shirt and pants turned out adorable and so easy to crochet! The booties were a bit trickier. I made one bootie from a pattern. The result was too large, even with a much smaller hook, so I unraveled it and invented my own pattern, very loosely based on the one already tried. With a bit of tinkering, the first bootie turned out great.
However, I did not know how many rows I could spare to make the cuff for there was very little yard left. So, I pulled the yarn off the cone and made a ball with the center near the end of the first bootie (not cut yet since I might have enough yarn for a row or two of cuff). You can see the end of the cone trailing the ball. In essence, I made the first bootie from one end of the yarn and the second bootie from the other end of the yarn. That way I could keep lengthening the cuffs of each bootie until I ran out of thread. Pretty cool, huh?
As you can imagine, I have been getting burnt out with crocheting, so I chose to knit a dress for another cyber friend whose baby was born a couple of months ago. She does not know I am doing this, but, as (a) she has many children, (b) she has a newborn, and (c) she homeschools, she is probably too exhausted to read my blog. So, I know my secret is safe with you! I picked up a cone in the color shaded pastels ombre. Anyway, I found this adorable Cotton Candy dress that I am knitting in I have finished the skirt and am working on the right back. The back, front, and sleeves should go fairly quickly. The first ten rows were a nightmare--I relished the challenge of making the row of triangles, but I felt like I did when I was trying to get through the first level of Crash Bandicoot and kept dying and starting from scratch! Honestly, it took me a week to get through the triangle obstacle course! Apparently, I'm not the only one who has trouble with counting on this dress, LOL . . .
Finally, I just started a baby blanket using the same stitch as the blanket I made for baby Leilani last year. Steve's parents are going to be great- grandparents for the first time, so I have until November--when Steve's niece in Guatemala is due--to work on a gift. I picked up four cones of daisy ombre cotton yarn, which I think will yield a 40 inch by 48 inch blanket plus doll clothes and potholders.
Last March, my parents gave Pamela, a stuffed animal lover, this cute teddy bear. She figured out really quickly that the bear will recite prayers and poems if you press its paws. Pamela loved the added bonus of the bear that had verbal stims like her! LOL! I noticed that she learned these poems and prayers and, when she recites, she sounds exactly like the bear. The same voice. The same cadence. The same pitch! Here are comparisons of the bear and Pamela reciting the same poem:
