Red Flag World - A place where people obsess over what a child is lacking and how far said child is behind peers. A place where people assume you are in denial if you focus on the positives about a child. A place where people say "Yeah, but . . ." more often than they should and leave parents feeling defeated and alone.
Green Flag Parent - A parent who focuses on what the child is doing and see what developmental growth steps are next. A parent who sees efforts that fall short as practice and opportunities for increased understanding, not mistakes. A parent who realizes how much more she knows about her child than anyone else. A parent who sees his child as a communicating partner more than a student.
On that note, join me in celebrating Pamela's perfect recitation of "The Eagle" by Alfred Lord Tennyson. Four years ago, she struggled to memorize poetry and recite it. So, what if her peers are getting ready to graduate from college. Compared to where she was, Pamela is flying now!
Today we went to the mall for Pamela to get a hair cut. On the way, I said a bunch of Spanish words and Pamela was able to translate every single one into English for Steve. He was very impressed: dura, blanda, mesa, silla, cama, grande, pequeño, mediano, hambre, pelo, cansada, oso, and gruñió. I bet some of her peers can't do that!
Finally, when Pamela was six, she cried when we put a pencil in her hand. Now, she loves to write. She loves to draw. The first drawing is her illustration of Tennyson's poem. The next is copied from her natural history book. The next two are from her architecture book to supplement her studies on Mesopotamia in ancient history.
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